It’s Judea - Life after Infant Loss
It’s Judea - Life after Infant Loss
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spend the morning with me | pregnancy chat
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♡ FAQs
How old are you? 27
How tall are you? 164cm
What nationality are you? Maori/European
What Country are you in? New Zealand
Hi Lovlies,
My name is Judea and I am a 27 yr old Mama of 3 - one angel, my toddler Son and another little girl on the way - living in New Zealand. This channel is a space for me to show the realities of my life after losing our daughter to SIDS. The highs, the lows and everything in between, you get a mixed bag of “content” here but always from a place of honesty.
Thank you so much for your support!
Judea x
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Відео

new aesthetic??? keeping busy on 0 hrs sleep in 48 hrs
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♡ SOCIALS: INSTAGRAM: @itsjudeaaa TIKTOK: @itsjudeaaa BUSINESS INQUIRIES: judeaamarige@gmail.com ♡ MUSIC: www.epidemicsound.com/ ♡ FTC | This video is not sponsored. Some of the links provided are affiliate links. I earn a small commission off of each purchase, which allows me to invest back into my channel. All thoughts and opinions are my own! ♡ FAQs How old are you? 27 How tall are you? 164c...
My baby started daycare! 😩 Spend the afternoon with me
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♡ SOCIALS: INSTAGRAM: @itsjudeaaa TIKTOK: @itsjudeaaa BUSINESS INQUIRIES: judeaamarige@gmail.com ♡ MUSIC: www.epidemicsound.com/ ♡ FTC | This video is not sponsored. Some of the links provided are affiliate links. I earn a small commission off of each purchase, which allows me to invest back into my channel. All thoughts and opinions are my own! ♡ FAQs How old are you? 27 How tall are you? 164c...
hi! its been a while...time to restart
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A little catch up before we resume :) ♡ SOCIALS: INSTAGRAM: @itsjudeaaa TIKTOK: @itsjudeaaa BUSINESS INQUIRIES: judeaamarige@gmail.com ♡ MUSIC: www.epidemicsound.com/ ♡ FTC | This video is not sponsored. Some of the links provided are affiliate links. I earn a small commission off of each purchase, which allows me to invest back into my channel. All thoughts and opinions are my own! ♡ FAQs How ...

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  • @brilliantbutblue
    @brilliantbutblue 6 годин тому

    No questions. I just wanted to say how lovely it is seeing you back on YT. Take care of YOU.

  • @rjx9100
    @rjx9100 10 годин тому

    Sorry if you’ve already answered but is the current pregnancy from IVF? IVF mama here!

  • @jodiesperl4427
    @jodiesperl4427 13 годин тому

    What a lil chatter box u have there . Very adorable I must say 🥰

  • @jodiesperl4427
    @jodiesperl4427 13 годин тому

    Glade ur back please alway remember everyone makes mistakes that's what being human is . U have lost the one thing a mother can loose that breaks her . Life is hard things are hard ur strong that's so hard to be . I read some of the comments on tic toc u get and I just think omg these people think their so perfect to be able to point out ur mistakes it's laughable really . Stay strong u do what u feel is right and please never take in those bad comment just feel bad for those people and their bad comments cause their really the ones that are not in the right place . ❤😊

  • @MCognettaable
    @MCognettaable 22 години тому

    I’m nosey, is UA-cam paying a lot or something? How can she afford all this, have her son in daycare annnd stay home all day also as a single mother ?? 🥴 sounds like an amazing life! Her ex has a lot of money or something? They didn’t strike me as super wealthy I dunno 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @MCognettaable
    @MCognettaable 22 години тому

    Is daycare in New Zealand free?? I can’t imagine affording this in the U.S. while staying home 🥴

  • @rebekah3483
    @rebekah3483 23 години тому

    I hope your pain gets better! I'm sorry it's been so much more this time around! You're still very active with Echo so don't cut yourself short on thinking you're not doing anything! You look great! I'm so excited for her to come! Will you be doing a video like you did with Echo's birth?

  • @BreannahMarieLPN
    @BreannahMarieLPN День тому

    Could we see what books you've been reading and enjoying? I'm always looking for new books to try

  • @gembets
    @gembets День тому

    My third baby was like that too the Pelvic pain was intense 😭😭😭 could barely walk, stand belly bands hardly helped me too he was such a big heavy baby!

  • @debralanguet4951
    @debralanguet4951 День тому

    Judea , you are a very strong and beautiful woman 🌸🫶 I’m so proud of you for overcoming all that life has thrown at you! God bless you sweetheart and your beautiful children. Your an amazing mommy 💗 Much love 💕 from Debra in Maine 🌸🌼🩷

  • @kmw97
    @kmw97 День тому

    Judea, I'm so sorry you are hurting and not sleeping is the worst! It's not only necessary but such a great escape from our mind if we can turn it off. I know for me personally, lack of sleep really makes my emotions hard to navigate and keep in check. I realize it's not that way for everyone but just something I thought I would share. My heart hurts for you and your beautiful family, I REALLY do pray every time I see a post or story that God is able to heal the hurt and restore your family. Regardless, you are both focusing on doing what's best for you babies and that's really the best you can do atm. Don't feel guilty about doing things FOR YOU! As moms we need to remember to be our best selves it's important we take time for ourselves... Thank you for sharing the hard parts with us, I'm glad it can distract you❤

    • @kmw97
      @kmw97 День тому

      Ohhh and YES ECHO is a freaking super star on that scooter!! 🤯 So impressed with his skills!! He may really go somewhere with that one day!!

  • @tristabella2297
    @tristabella2297 2 дні тому

    I had round ligaments in my pelvis from 16 weeks. My first I almost had at 24.5 weeks but she held on until 36 weeks. My second my son tried at 17 weeks and by 23 weeks I was on bed rest.32 weeks I got held in hospital until his high at 37weeks.

  • @brookecope7007
    @brookecope7007 2 дні тому

    How many weeks pregnant are you now???

  • @lifewithlacy7190
    @lifewithlacy7190 2 дні тому

    Can’t wait to see this precious little girl 💗💗💗

  • @charlenefriesen8286
    @charlenefriesen8286 2 дні тому

    You have a beautiful house first of all! Echo has the cutest voice every and such a big boy skater. My pelvic pain started when I was pregnant with my twins, which I never felt with my first single girl. I was thinking that you need to get off your feet. No belly band helped me with the twins but staying off my feet helped The fb and aid the pain sonly started when I was on me feet. I was forced off work when the doctor said that my existing c section I was forced to have with my first girl was ripping so no chance for a vaginal delivery. Oh well! I was separated also doing it all by myself with my first child like you but I Tell me if😊 I’m being remained friend with my husband and he was no help in her younger years so I’m so glad Brogan is still working on your marriage mine wasn’t matter of fact he thought since I had emotional relationship he got to do the same thing plus more! Oh well shit happens. I hope it will work out for you botb so your all fpoohn

  • @jflo4032
    @jflo4032 2 дні тому

    Your baby bump isnt round its sort of oval Were you like that with your son?

  • @BreannahMarieLPN
    @BreannahMarieLPN 2 дні тому

    I'm so happy you are uploading again, your vlogs are the most soothing thing :3

    • @Itsjudeaaa
      @Itsjudeaaa 2 дні тому

      Aw glad you enjoyed it! X

  • @kimtroost8546
    @kimtroost8546 2 дні тому

    You are such a strong woman and an amazing mother!!! Never forget that. After all you’ve been through, you can be so proud of yourself! 💗

  • @blank15053
    @blank15053 2 дні тому

    i love your youtube videos!

  • @DrkRse0788
    @DrkRse0788 2 дні тому

    Oh yea, when i was pregnant with my daughter i had severe pelvic pain early on, like 24wks on ans i was so tired and sick the whole time ..with my son pregnancy was a breeze.

  • @delphinium5555
    @delphinium5555 2 дні тому

    Sending best wishes to you and your family. I remember once reading that many marriages don't survive Sudden Unexplained Infant Death. I believe my husband and I were fortunate, I'm not sure how or why we made it through although not without mental health issues and eating disorder on my part. It has been a long road. I understand the immense struggles and enduring pain, the heartache of losing one's child. I hope that time will bring forgiveness and healing for you both. Blessings on you all.

  • @leeloo467
    @leeloo467 3 дні тому

    One advice I have is that never think you are bothering the midwives or doctor or that you are overreacting. You don’t need to wait until the next appointment.

    • @Itsjudeaaa
      @Itsjudeaaa 2 дні тому

      You’re so right

    • @kmw97
      @kmw97 2 дні тому

      I was going to say the same thing! That's what they are there for and I'm sure she would rather you reach out so she can share whatever helpful professional advice and input she has, rather than be in such pain.

  • @ShineBright757
    @ShineBright757 3 дні тому

    I love you guys!!❤❤❤

  • @ShineBright757
    @ShineBright757 3 дні тому

    I love the new style and how you’re branching out into new things!! And I can’t believe how skilled Echo is on his little scooter!! Love you guys ❤❤❤

  • @Dollypops43
    @Dollypops43 3 дні тому

    Hi 👋 judea I had the pregnancy belt For pelvic girdle pain. It did help I was late on in my second pregnancy also when it started It really is painful and uncomfortable, i also was very restless with it at nights Rest up when you can Also echo is adorable You and brogan are raising such A lovely boy x

  • @brilliantbutblue
    @brilliantbutblue 3 дні тому

    Welcome back 😊

  • @tarabithia4509
    @tarabithia4509 3 дні тому

    Im due in August too. A day after my firsts birthday! My pelvic pain is so bad this pregnancy. I used a cane one day and then ordered a bell band. I do recommend getting one. Its been helping. But doesn't take the pain away completely. I saw some exercises you can do to help the pain but haven't tried it yet.

    • @Itsjudeaaa
      @Itsjudeaaa 3 дні тому

      Hoping the belly band will get me to the end of this pregnancy! X we’re not far from the finish line 🥰

  • @dulanga15
    @dulanga15 3 дні тому

    Darling , I’m confused a little. Who’s the father of the baby girl now ? I saw a man from your bday vlog, the body language showed he’s interested in you. May be just a friend of yours. Something I just noticed back then

  • @margauxevans4298
    @margauxevans4298 3 дні тому

    Great vlog

  • @mirandadansby
    @mirandadansby 3 дні тому

    I'm so sorry you are hurting! With my last pregnancy I had symphysis pubis dysfunction, which is where your body overproduces the relaxin hormone that allows your tendons to stretch more during birth. It was incredibly painful, especially when standing or turning side to side in the bed. Maybe google it and see if it sounds like what you are experiencing and if so bring it up at your midwife appointment to see what suggestions she has. I had a good belly band with nice back support and it helped so much with the pain and heavy bowling ball feeling, I would definitely suggest getting one. You are so close to the end, I hope the end of the pregnancy gets easier not harder for you! So excited for your family and sweet baby Ever! ❤️

    • @Itsjudeaaa
      @Itsjudeaaa 3 дні тому

      I’ll definitely run it by her! X Thank you 🩷

  • @Mrs.8120
    @Mrs.8120 3 дні тому

    I had to use a belly band for my pregnancy with my daughter. It helped a lot with back pain and some pelvic pain… daughter was 9 1/2 lbs at birth!

  • @jflo4032
    @jflo4032 3 дні тому

    Are you doing home birth? Go to hospital there are alot of risks for home birth

  • @tabiwatermelon961
    @tabiwatermelon961 3 дні тому

    I had the same pelvic pain you’re describing, with my second child (who was just born last month). I was a trooper through my first pregnancy; but this last time, there was a deep, bruising, achy pressure that got almost unmanageable. It turned out that this baby’s head was very low, and remained low throughout the whole pregnancy. It caused a lack of circulation because of all the pressure it was putting on my blood vessels down there, so I ended up developing a “vulvar varicosity” (a varicose vein inside that area, out of sight). The only thing that helped was using ice packs for some physical relief, and trying not stay on my feet for too long. I thought the baby would come out huge with a giant head, but she was actually half a pound smaller than my first. It was just because of how deep that head was engaged 😬 It hurts just remembering the last few months of that.

  • @jayciejuice
    @jayciejuice 3 дні тому

    I really love and appreciate the way you talk to your son. So underrated how beautiful you are when interacting with him <3

  • @DanaBold
    @DanaBold 3 дні тому

    I had extreme pelvic pain with my 2nd son and still carried to 41 weeks 😅 belly support bands really help

  • @manoukvanderstelt
    @manoukvanderstelt 3 дні тому

    Yes I used a belly band! When I was pregnant with my second baby I had horrible pelvic pain. Having a toddler , same as you now! Helped a lot! Definitely recommend using one. It didn’t get the pain completely away , but the pressure was a lot less. You are a super mom Judea! 🤍 so glad you are back at UA-cam! Missed your video’s a lot xxx

  • @chasingrainbowschannel
    @chasingrainbowschannel 3 дні тому

    Belly bands are amazing! Praying your pain subsides and this pregnancy gets a little easier on you and that you have a healthy baby in August🙏💜

  • @deborahlamartiniere6349
    @deborahlamartiniere6349 4 дні тому

    Judea is very expensive in New Zeland I think I would love to move there.

  • @raecampbell957
    @raecampbell957 4 дні тому

    Kia ora Judea, please move your jug away from the edge of your bench. Little hands are so quick. Arohanui ♥️

  • @katelynnb2335
    @katelynnb2335 4 дні тому

    Go see a pelvic floor therapist and that should be able to help you with your pelvic pain! You don’t have to live with it :)

  • @morganashearing5339
    @morganashearing5339 4 дні тому

    No more of seeing echo’s face grow? Go you mamma xx

  • @ninas4968
    @ninas4968 4 дні тому

    29 weeks today and OMG the pelvic pain has been excruciating.. 😟 I have to walk so slow and stand up slowly. It’s been tough. I never had the pain with my first two pregnancies but my last one and this one are just tough. ❤ belly band does help a lot!

    • @Itsjudeaaa
      @Itsjudeaaa 3 дні тому

      Yes! The slow walking makes me feel so weak 😩😩😩

    • @ninas4968
      @ninas4968 3 дні тому

      @@Itsjudeaaa same

  • @jonathanbrown6751
    @jonathanbrown6751 4 дні тому

    You look so good right out of bed!! Idk how you do it. I wake up most of the time and cant stop sneezing with morning allergies. Im a hot mess. 😂

    • @Itsjudeaaa
      @Itsjudeaaa 3 дні тому

      😅 oh no! I definitely feel like a hot mess rolling out of bed haha

    • @jonathanbrown6751
      @jonathanbrown6751 3 дні тому

      @@Itsjudeaaa you definitely don't look it

  • @rodellemotto-douthett4528
    @rodellemotto-douthett4528 4 дні тому

    I remember getting more pelvic pain with my third pregnancy. I wish I'd used a belly band. I did however go to a Physiotherapist and an Osteopath and they both helped. Btw with the wallpaper idea I mentioned in your last video comments, I've not personally done wallpaper. I can see a really funky design as well 😃 All the best and thanks for keeping us updated.

    • @Itsjudeaaa
      @Itsjudeaaa 3 дні тому

      Oh! So I actually found some really cool wallpaper and looked into the cost….over $1K! Might have to wait wait a bit for that one and stick to a gallery wall in the meantime 🥰

    • @rodellemotto-douthett4528
      @rodellemotto-douthett4528 2 дні тому

      @@Itsjudeaaa Ouch!! Good idea 😃

  • @mariainct8514
    @mariainct8514 4 дні тому

    Hi Judea. You look beautiful! Echo is sooo adorable and sweet. I would definitely try a belly band. It will hopefully take some of the pressure off of your pelvis. It's worth a try. 🌺🌼🌻

  • @SugaBabe767
    @SugaBabe767 4 дні тому

    My baby is due early September/late August and I have too been experiencing pelvic pains. My doctor did not check the position of the baby, but just told me there is not much I can do until baby comes out. She did recommend the belly band and I have been using that when doing my runs or walks and I do feel like it has helped. It doesn’t take it away completely but it does make it more bearable ❤

    • @Itsjudeaaa
      @Itsjudeaaa 3 дні тому

      Wow you’re still running! I had to stop around 23/25 weeks hehe

  • @30mushroom
    @30mushroom 4 дні тому

    Hi Judea 😊 Being pregnant while caring for a small child is EXHAUSTING 😅 I imagine that’s where a lot of your tiredness is coming from. I didn’t suffer from pelvic issues during any of my pregnancies but I do know it’s very important to address the issue early to help with recovery after baby is born. You are glowing Mama ✨

  • @Jay-mo11
    @Jay-mo11 4 дні тому

    Gosh, pelvic girdle pain is excruciating 😖 and lightning crotch… if you’ve ever had that? I remember when I first experienced pelvic girdle pain with baby number 2, my midwife said to me “it’s only going to get worse with any future pregnancies” and boy was she right! By baby number 5, it was literally torture and started as early as 13 weeks 😢 even walking a short distance was unbearable. And sadly, nothing helped either. So I truly sympathise with the pain you’re going through 🤍

    • @Itsjudeaaa
      @Itsjudeaaa 3 дні тому

      Omg!! I got lighting crotch after birth with Echo when I was imbalanced, it came right once I got stronger though thank goodness! None of that so far just the pelvic pain 😩

  • @christinasankey5363
    @christinasankey5363 4 дні тому

    I used a pelvic brace and it was life changing ! 🙌🏽

  • @laurenreger
    @laurenreger 4 дні тому

    Just seen that you’d posted so about to make myslef a coffee and tune in ❤️☕️😀xx